quī bene amat
quī bene amat, bene castīgat
Classical[ˈkʷiː ˈbɛ.nɛ ˈa.mat ˈbɛ.nɛ kasˈtiː.ɡat]Ecclesiastical[ˈkʷiː ˈbɛː.ne ˈaː.mat ˈbɛː.ne kasˈtiː.ɡat]
Meaning
- spare the rod and spoil the child
Origins
Literally, “he who loves well, castigates well”. This form of the phrase is likely a calque from French qui aime bien châtie bien. Similar phrases are found in Latin texts: * c. 325 CE, Lactantius, Divinae institutiones 5.23: Bonos autem quos diligit castigat saepius The good people whom he likes, he punishes more often * Early 16th century, Vives, De Subventione pauperum 1.6: Quem diligit, castigat Whom he likes, he punishes